I look at the frantic pace of today’s Western culture and observe the cost on families.
At the time that I was involved in it, my husband and I were raising five of the seven children as a combined family due to divorce and remarriage.
I also had a daytime teaching job and an after school music program which I taught from my home Studio.
Around those heavy demands, I planned menus, went grocery shopping, prepared meals, kept the house in order, ran kids to various activities and lessons.
It was nuts!
In between chanting prayers to combat exhaustion, I would listen for and observe any possible solutions.
I implemented mass cooking and freezing of meals on the weekends.
I arranged for transportation to activities and lessons for my children.
I got help for the yard.
I got help for the house.
And then, all the children grew up and graduated and got jobs and went to college.
And I could breathe.
Now, I am watching the same thing happen to the next generation.
I am looking at each individual family trying to do all those things for themselves.
And I am hearing about co-housing and communities and cooperatives.
And those people actually sound sane.
So, I find myself creating the same multi-family model over and over again.
It goes like this:
A minimum of four families can share whatever work, income, services which are required.
More families can be added up to a comfortable number for community.
So, who do share values with?
Who do you trust to share with in a balanced and comfortable way?
Work out the details of housing, services and income producers in small cooperative agreement steps.
See what works and keep expanding on it.
© 2016 Kathryn Hardage
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